A few years after Milton Goldsmith’s mother died in 1874, his father Abraham remarried, as I have written about here. With his second wife Frances Spanier, Abraham had four more children, Milton’s half-siblings. Milton dedicated four more pages in his family album to these siblings. From Milton’s biographies I learned a great deal more about each of these siblings than I’d been able to learn from traditional research.
Alfred was the oldest, and he became a well-known rare book dealer in New York City, as discussed here. What I didn’t know until reading Milton’s biography of his brother was that Alfred had at first enrolled in dental school. In addition to the biography Milton wrote about his brother Alfred, this page includes a photograph presumably of Alfred and two women who are not identified and a brief news story about Alfred.
The article below reveals a bit about Alfred’s personality. Apparently he was quite a literary snob and refused to stock books in his store that he considered “trash.” Good for him for having standards!
Bertha was the next child born to Abraham and Frances. Milton focused on her two marriages in his biography of Bertha. As I wrote about here, Bertha first married Sampson Weinhandler and then married his first cousin Frederick Newman. Milton’s insights into both men added an additional dimension to what I had learned through my research:
Imagine Bertha traveling all the way to Reno to divorce Sampson for incompatibility. Milton described him as “spoiled.” I sure wish Milton had described how Sampson and his family responded to Bertha’s marriage to his cousin Frederick the following year. Milton obviously much preferred Frederick to Sampson, describing the former as “a genial, well-informed man with a host of friends.”
I am not sure whether this photograph is of Bertha and Sampson or Bertha and Frederick, but given Milton’s description of Sampson, I am going to assume this is Sampson.
The third child born to Abraham and Frances was their daughter Alice. Milton’s biography of Alice is quite fascinating and revealed far more about Alice than I’d been able to learn through my research. In fact, Alice had been a very elusive subject, rarely appearing on census records or elsewhere.
Now that I’ve read Milton’s story about her, I understand better why I had so much difficulty learning about her. She traveled extensively and was stranded in Italy at the start of World War I. She helped the American Consul in Genoa deal with other stranded travelers and was rewarded with a free trip back to the US.
Alice was an educated and scholarly woman who took courses at the University of Pennsylvania, Columbia, and Harvard and had a career with two different doctors, one in Philadelphia and one in New York. I searched for a Dr. Tinley, but had no luck locating him. I also learned how Alice had met her husband playing bridge with mutual friends. She was 43 when she married Louis Margulies, whom Milton described as “a fine, outstanding, genial man” whose business was real estate and who had immigrated from Romania at the age of 14. I love this photograph of them—they look so happy.
Finally, Milton included a page for his youngest sibling, Louis Goldsmith. Like his sister Alice, Louis traveled extensively and married later in life (he was 53). He was very successful in the advertising business, handling the Palm Beach Cloth account.
What I had not already learned about Louis was that he had worked at Friedberger Mills and almost died after an operation for an injury to his hand. He then worked with his brothers Milton and Edwin at the Snellenburg Company in Philadelphia where he learned the art of advertising before he moved to New York to become “a very capable advertising man.” Milton described his youngest sibling Louis as “very much a recluse in his habits, living at the Plaza Hotel, and is very generous.” He also was a very snazzy dresser, as my father would have said.
It’s wonderful to have photographs of nine of the ten children of my three-times great-uncle Abraham Goldsmith1 and more details about their lives from someone who knew and loved them well, their brother Milton.
This is Part XVIII of an ongoing series of posts based on the family album of Milton Goldsmith, generously shared with me by his granddaughter Sue. See Part I, Part II, Part III, Part IV, Part V, Part VI, Part VII , Part VIII, Part IX, Part X, Part XI, Part XII, Part XIII , Part XIV , Part XV, Part XVI, and Part XVII at the links.
Quitting dental pursuit for rare books and a short lived marriage; finding oneself back in the day.
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I guess it’s always been a struggle! I also think that these younger siblings had a lot to compete with, having older siblings like Milton, Edwin, Emily, Rose, and Estelle!
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I think you hit the nail on the head, there.
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What is so extraordinary about this diary is the pages themselves. Milton was the original scrap booker. The photo of Louis is wonderful – that pose! All the photo’s are wonderful 🙂
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Thanks, Sharon! Yes, Louis was quite a smart dresser. No wonder he went into the business of clothing advertising!
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It’s a great photo of Alice and Louis looking so relaxed and pleased with themselves and the world.
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I agree—I love their smiles and the way their bodies lean against each other.
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I agree with Sharon that Milton was the original scrapbooker. Imagine what he would have been able to do with the technology today! And that is a reminder to all of us to record what might seem unimportant facts or memories in our own lives. You never know when another “Amy” will come along and want to write about the family. 😉
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You’re right. I am not good about that. I take much better care of my long dead relatives!
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Me too! I’ve kept about three diaries in three years but I doubt there is anything of interest – all kept before I turned 20.
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I kept a diary in fourth grade and then from ninth grade through my senior year of high school. But it would make really boring reading. It’s mostly about school work, boys I had crushes on, and fights with my friends!
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While I do have my own scrapbooks, they are nothing like this. His descriptions of his siblings are amazing. I’m so glad you have been able to learn more about their lives.
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Thanks, Debi. I am sure your grandfather is very proud of all your work, especially scrapbooks!
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Family research just based on vital statistics is a good beginning. The family tree is representing the bare bones. You always tried to add the flesh to the bones by researching newspaper articles. Now with Milton’s family album at hand, your ancestors really come alive. The portraits, the other photos and the story are a wonderful treasure, which makes your blog so very much interesting to me and your readers. I can’t wait to see more. Best wishes! Peter
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So true, Peter. That’s why I also always am excited to find newspaper articles or letters or even photographs—to add some flesh to the bones on the family tree. (Sorry—terrible mixed metaphor—-perhaps leaves on the branches is a better one?)
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Flesh to the bones sounds OK to me, Amy.
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Imagine if we had a book like this with biographies and photos and inside information for all of our ancestors! This is truly remarkable and very related to what you are doing with your blog.
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I like to think that is what we are all doing—creating digital scrapbooks for our families. But most of my work is not first hand. That’s what makes Milton’s albums so special. He KNEW these people intimately!
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Yes, that makes it extra special. Still you are “recovering” their lives.
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A couple days ago I found my mother’s Baby Book (Madeleine Goldsmith) and a diary Aunt Ros (Rosalind Goldsmith) wrote when she was about 12. Would you like them? They were Milton’s daughters.
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Sure! That would be great!
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I want to look at them first and then I have to figure out if there is a safe way to send them or if that will have to wait for my next trip to MA. Now that your mother lives near you does your brother ever travel up there? If so, I could give them to him to bring to you.
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We really need to think about getting what I have either back to you or to Philadelphia before I can take anything more. I am really worried about the condition of the albums here in my house.
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The albums in your house need to go to Philadelphia. I asked my son if he wanted to see them and he said he can go to Philadelphia some time when he is on the east coast and they can go there. I need to look at the forms to fill out so I can donate them.
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Sounds good. I think it really will be a wonderful place to preserve them for posterity.
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