Today would have been my father’s 93rd birthday. Tomorrow it will be nine months since he died on February 16, 2019. Nine months is a long time—long enough for a human baby to gestate and be ready for life outside the womb. And yet it is just a flash in a life that lasted over 92 years.
These nine months have been the hardest of my life—dealing with not only losing my father, but watching my mother decline as well. Life without my father has been just too hard for her to bear.
So today I’d like to dedicate my blog to them both, two people whose love for each other was the key to almost all of their happiness, two beautiful young people who grew to be loving parents, adoring grandparents and great-grandparents and aunt and uncle, and loyal and caring friends to people in their community and elsewhere.
Love the photos … and love your folks.
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It was/is mutual. Thanks. xo
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Amy, I am so sorry for your loss and wish you well. The photo’s of your parents speak volumes, the evidence of their love and contentment shine through.
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Thank you, Shirley. I love the parallel in these two photographs taken over sixty years apart—my father’s hand lovingly on my mother in the first, and her hand lovingly on him in the second.
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What beautiful photos. My mother was alone for nearly 8 years and she said even after all that time, she still thought she heard him pulling in the garage after a long day of work. Broke my heart. Hugs, Amy.
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I know what she meant. Thanks, Debi.
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A short, but poignant and wonderful tribute to your parents.
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Thanks, Linda.
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Happy Birthday Uncle John!! We miss you and hope you are happy. Love, Joann, Zach & Jessie
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Thanks, Joann. He loved you all.
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A very touching tribute to your father, Amy! The love of your parents for each other shines through the lovely photos you have posted. May the memory of their love be a consolation to you! Peter
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Thank you, Peter.
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We will never forget our fathers, Amy. They were people who deserve more than mire admiration.
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So very true, GP. Thank you.
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Beautiful photos Amy. Your parents’ love shines so clearly, even to strangers and it is so sad to hear of your mum’s sadness and decline. Thinking of you.
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Thanks, Su.
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Both photo’s are so lovely of your parents. Beautiful tribute to both of them. It is so hard to lose a parent and then watch the other decline. You and your family are in my thoughts as you navigate this difficult path ~ hugs ~ Sharon
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Thanks so much, Sharon.
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I hadn’t realised you’d lost your dad or so short a time ago (9 months is not very long). Sending hugs – I know how it hurts.
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Thanks, Val.
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What a wonderful tribute to your parents. Such beautiful pictures, a real treasure. Bernadette
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Thank you so much, Bernadette.
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Amy, I’m so sorry about your father’s passing and about your mother’s decline. This blog post shows your love and is a beautiful tribute to both of them. What a lovely couple! Sending you lots of hugs across the miles!
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Thanks so much, Luanne.
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Beautiful tribute and beautiful photos … the love shines through!
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Thanks, cousin. I hope all is well with you.
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Your love for your parents shows through. I know it breaks your heart to see your mother’s heartache. Sending good thoughts your way and hers.
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Thank you so much for your kind words, Cathy.
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Amy, I have been so out of touch. My apologies for that. I am so sorry to hear of your father’s passing, and that your mom is struggling. These photos are so loving and beautiful. Their connection to each other shines through.
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Thanks, Leslie—I am so glad to hear from you! I hope you are well. Thanks for thinking of me.
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A warm hug to you, Amy, during this challenging time. The warm memories make this time bitter-sweet. May the sweetness come through even in those moments when the bitterness seems to have the upper hand. With love to you, Megen
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Thank you so much, cousin, for your thoughtful words. Xoxo
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I feel like they are always with me in my heart.
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I hope mine are as well.
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What a beautiful tribute to your parents… Birthdays are so hard, but they are also a link to loving memories, something that is the best legacy any of us can wish for.
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You’re so right. Thank you!
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My thoughts are with you. May there come peace to your heart and spirit as the loving memories continue.
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Thanks, Emily.
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Two kindly faces who would only wish you peace and happiness. 92 good years – there must be so many happy memories…
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Thank you, Frederick. There certainly are.
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