No real time to write this weekend, so I thought I would just post one more of the pictures that Robin sent. I don’t know when this was taken, and it was a great surprise to realize that there was a photograph of my mother that I had never seen. I’d love to know more about the picture. It looks like a formal photograph, but it’s not a school photograph because I have seen her high school graduation photograph. So when was it taken? Why was she sitting for a formal photograph? What is the necklace she is wearing? I will have to ask her when I speak to her. But it’s a fascinating photograph. It captures her in so many ways that I know so well, but also sheds a new light that is different from other pictures I’ve seen before. That’s what makes photographs so interesting—they let you see someone at a particular moment in time, a moment when perhaps you didn’t know them, and let you see who they were then as well as who they are now.
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Family resemblances
Something fun
One day a while back my brother asked me whether I thought Uncle Sam looked like our grandmother. I said that I saw a family resemblance among all four of Bessie and Joseph’s children for whom we had photos. (Poor Frieda—there does not seem to be any picture of her. Maybe Harry took off with them all…) To me, they all resembled Bessie. Here are some close-up head shots of Bessie and the four children.
I did not see as much resemblance between Max and the other children, not surprisingly since he had a different mother.
That made me wonder whether Max looked more like Joseph than the other children, or did he look like his mother? (And sadly, we have no pictures of Abraham. It would be nice to be able to compare Abraham and Max. Morty and Paula, if you are still reading, do you have any photos of your grandfather??) We have no photo of Joseph, so it’s all speculation.
So I thought maybe if we combined a picture of Max and Hyman we’d have some clue as to what Joseph looked like. Totally unscientific, I know, and also illogical, but when you are searching, anything seems like a possibility. So here’s a picture that morphs Max and Hyman.
Here’s Hyman and Sam morphed—a much closer resemblance:
Then I went a step further and combined Tillie and Gussie—the results are striking. The two sisters had a strong resemblance.
Finally I combined all four of Bessie and Joseph’s children (Hyman, Tillie, Gussie and Sam) and all five of Joseph’s children for whom I have pictures (Max, Hyman, Tillie, Gussie and Sam).
Obviously these prove nothing, except perhaps that I am easily amused! What do you think?
Can anyone identify these men?
Judy sent me the photo below (THANK YOU!) and asked whether anyone could help her identify the men in the picture. We think the man to the far left is Max, but are not sure. Does anyone recognize the other two men? Can you confirm that that is Max? You may need to enlarge the page view on your browser to see the photo clearly as it is rather small.
Judy thinks the picture might have been taken near Wingdale, New York. It would have been some time before 1946.
Can you help?
I know that I have asked for help before, and many of you have responded by sending some pictures and other documents. Those contributions have really been helpful in learning about our family and the various personalities and relationships. For example, one wedding picture helped us figure out that Judy and I were both talking about the same Uncle Sam. One bar mitzvah picture showed that as of 1957, Gussie’s children and Hyman’s children were still connected. One hand-written family tree helped to confirm that Abraham’s children and Max’s children had met.
But now I am asking you all to try and find pictures, letters, journals, any documents that may also shed light on our grandparents and great-grandparents as well as our parents and ourselves. I know that somewhere some of you must have old family pictures like I had. Maybe you have a wedding album or bar mitzvah album, a box of random old photos or letters. Maybe someone even has a photo of Frieda or Joseph or another relative, but you had no idea who they were. Maybe there’s an old newspaper clipping or a birth certificate or draft card or some other document buried in your attic or basement.
I know that you are all busy, and I know that the thought of digging through dusty, musty boxes and albums is not that pleasant. I just am asking that you perhaps make a resolution for 2014 that you will spend one or two hours seeing if you can find anything. If you don’t have a scanner, you can mail whatever you have to me, and I will scan it. I promise to return all the originals once I have scanned them. If you can scan documents, that would be wonderful also.
No one likes a nag, and I don’t want to be one, but we will all benefit from your efforts. I hope you will consider spending a little time engaged in a hunt for these things. From my own experience, I can tell you that I have found great joy and satisfaction in looking at the faces of our relatives in those old pictures. I hope you will also.















