As you know if you’ve been following this blog for a while, my Aunt Elaine preceded me as the family historian for my maternal side. Several times notes she made or information she gave to others has led me to more information. Her information has almost without exception proven to be accurate. For example, she provided me—indirectly—with the names of my grandmother Gussie Brotman’s half-siblings, Abraham, David, Sophie, and Max. She provided me with the clue that the Brotmanville Brotmans were our close relatives. She told me how my grandparents met each other in Brooklyn.
Well, she has done it again. This time, however, it was not information or notes that she provided, but rather her baby book, which my cousin found in a shoebox of old papers. It was partially filled out when my aunt was born on October 14, 1917. Although most of it is blank, the few pages that were filled provide not only further confirmation of relationships about which I was previously aware, but hints at some new ones.
Here are the pages of the book that have been filled in:
This is my grandfather’s beautifully florid handwriting. His daughter, my aunt, also had fancy handwriting like this.
My grandmother was never called Grace, always Gussie. But family lore is that my grandfather’s family thought Grace was more American.
My two maternal great-grandmothers!
Who are these people?
Tillie Ressler—my grandmother’s older sister
Mr. and Mrs. H. Brotman—my grandmother’s brother Hymie and his wife Sophie
Rebecca Rosenzweig—my grandfather’s cousin, daughter of his mother’s brother Gustav Rosenzweig
Mr. and Mrs. D. Goldschlager—my grandfather’s brother David and his wife Rebecca
Mrs. and Miss G. Goldschlager—my great-grandmother Ghitla Rosenzweig Goldschlager and her daughter Betty
Mrs. and Miss B. Moskowitz—my great-grandmother Bessie Brotman Moskowitz and her daughter Frieda
The next two are not familiar, but provide new paths to research. Can anyone help me decipher the names?
UPDATE: The last two must have been friends. Mr. and Mrs. Leon and Ray Kiok and her mother Mrs. Frances Azeraad. I found them all living together in Brooklyn, but not near my grandparents. I am not sure where they would have met. Leon was born in Poland in 1886, and Ray’s parents were born in Spain.
Finally, Mr. and Mrs. M. Brotman: my grandmother’s half-brother Max Brotman and his wife Sophie
On the following page were more names.
Miss E. Shapiro and fiancé—not known yet
Sam Brotman—my grandmother’s younger brother
Mrs. A. Peter and son—I do not know
Mr. and Mrs. A. Brotman—-my grandmother’s half-brother Abraham Brotman and his wife Bessie
Mrs. D. Brotman—Annie nee Salpeter, wife of David Brotman, my grandmother’s half-brother
Mr. and Mrs. Julius Goldfarb—more on them below
The next three are not familiar—Mrs. Louis (?) Yassky, Miss Rose Botomick (?), and Mrs. Tsulie (?) Hecht. As far as I can tell, these were not relatives, but friends.
I just loved seeing all these names. Names that I have researched and know are my family, but names I’d not seen in something like this, something that makes it clear that these people were all really connected to my grandparents in a personal way. I know that sounds odd. These were the siblings, mothers, and cousins. But since I grew up without hearing many of these names, it still was wonderful to see them all listed as the first visitors to see my aunt as a newborn in 1917.
I also found the list of gifts fascinating. My grandparents did not have money for silver and silk, but someone was very generous in giving these items to them for their first-born child.
One final page—the inside of the back cover:
A. Rosenzweig—-my grandfather’s cousin, Abraham Rosenzweig, Rebecca’s brother. I have speculated, based again on a story conveyed by notes from my Aunt Elaine, that it was either Abraham or Rebecca or Sarah who was accompanying my grandfather Isadore on Pacific Street in Brooklyn when he first laid eyes on my grandmother and declared he was going to marry her.
Back to Mr. and Mrs. Julius Goldfarb. I asked my mother who they were because in a second old item—a notebook my grandfather used for various purposes that was also used by all three of his children at one time or another[1]—the name Joe Goldfarb appeared twice. Who were these Goldfarbs?
(There’s more great stuff on this page—Sam Brotman is my great-uncle Sam, Feuerstein B. is my great-aunt Betty Goldschlager Feuerstein, Leo Ressler is my mother’s first cousin, her Aunt Tillie’s son; Rae Rosenzweig and Lizzie Horowitz are my grandfather’s first cousins, sisters of Abraham and Rebecca. And there is an S. Goldfarb in addition to Joe.)
My mother said all she could remember was that either Julius or his wife was my grandmother Gussie’s first cousin. I’d never heard the name Goldfarb before, so what did I do? What all genealogy addicts would do. I immediately started searching. And the results of that search will be discussed in a later post once I have filled in more gaps in that story.
But for now, I once again can hear my aunt cheering me on, telling me to keep digging and finding the family stories.
[1] I will share more of that notebook in later posts also.
Hi Amy,
I enjoy reading your blogs especially when they pertain to Jeff’s immediate family. The genes in relatives play such a big role in our lives and it is so apparent with Elaine’s handwriting. I remember (especially) her beautiful “E” in script and it was interesting to see that her father had the same penmanship. Thanks for pointing this out in the blog. Your work is really amazing.
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Thanks, Joann. I have wondered whether she imitated his handwriting or it just came naturally. I am so glad you enjoyed the post! I hope you and the kids are well. We loved the video of Jessie signing the Star Spangled Banner!!
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This is such a treasure! Thanks for sharing!
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Thank you! I think so also.
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What a find! I had no idea that they had baby books in those days! My mentor professors (married couple) in grad school were Goldfarb.
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I didn’t either! But then each generation probably thinks they’ve invented things that have been around forever.
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For some reason I imagined it as something that came with the baby boomer babies. Hmm. Maybe it’s that I’ve never heard of one or seen one from an earlier time . . . until now.
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Either have I. My mother had one for me. I had one for my first child. Neither one was filled any more than the one for my aunt! Who has time or energy when you have a new baby?
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Haha, so true. I was determined to finish my kids’ books, but at some point I did stop. Now I keep wishing I had written which one needed soy formula and which one need dairy formula (both were adopted). But I didn’t write it down. I need to go through pix and see if I can find a can of formula in one of them!
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Good luck with that! I can barely remember those days—unfortunately.
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What a wonderful find! And as always Amy you have done so much with it to research more and share the stories. I enjoy so much learning about your family.
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Thank you, Su! And I always look forward to your genealogy posts as well! (And your Zimmer ones also. 🙂 )
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Oh, my, what a treasure! I adore both pictures of Elaine, and am always fascinated by lists of stuff from bygone days (in this case, the gifts). Am eager to read the results of your search.
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Thanks, Leslie! I am working on it… 🙂
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What an amazing find of treasured memories! The photo of you as a baby with your aunt was simply lovely! I think some things are the same, in that the first baby always gets more written down in their baby book. Thanks for sharing.
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Thank you. I love that picture also. It reminds me how much my aunt loved me and vice versa. And as a first born, I know that it’s true that there tends to be more photos of the first born, etc. By the time the second (or third or fourth, etc.) comes along, parents are much too busy to bother!
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