I have researched and written about hundreds of relatives (maybe thousands?) over the almost ten years that I’ve been writing this blog. And aside from my own direct ancestors, of those many, many cousins and great-aunts and great-uncles going back over two hundred years, there are only a small number whose stories are so compelling and unforgettable that when I see their name, I immediately remember the details of their lives.
One of those cousins is my fourth cousin Arye Katzenstein, whose heroic story I wrote about here. During a terrorist attack at the Munich Airport on February 10, 1970, Arye threw himself on a grenade released by the Palestinian terrorists and sacrificed his own life so that he could save the life of his father, Heinz Katzenstein, and the lives of all the other travelers. He was only 32 years old.
So when I received a comment on my blog from a woman named Miki saying her father was Arye Katzenstein, I gasped. I’d had no idea that Arye had had children when he was killed. I immediately wrote to Miki and learned that after more than fifty years, the city of Munich is finally providing a memorial for Arye on the grounds where the attack occurred. The land is now owned by a private company, BrainLab, and together with that company, the city, and the family of Arye Katzenstein, a proper memorial is being established. BrainLab has commissioned an art work by Alicia Kwade, an internationally known artist, and the family is creating a website and informational materials for the site, which will be dedicated sometime in 2024.
From Miki, I learned a great deal more about her father and his family and his life. As I already knew, Arye was born in Haifa (then Palestine, now Israel) on November 23, 1937, after his parents fled from Nazi Germany. But I learned from Miki that he had spent time in Germany as a student. In 1959 he came to Munich to study veterinary medicine, but later returned to study engineering. He had married his wife Bilha on October 22, 1961, and their first child, my cousin Miki, was born in Munich a few years later. The family returned to Israel before the 1967 war and had two more children there, a son and another daughter.
Thus, Arye left behind not only his parents and siblings, but also his wife and three very young children. It’s hard to imagine the pain and suffering that his death must have caused his loved ones. But his legacy is one of heroism and courage.
Miki shared with me several photographs of her family. First is a photograph of her father Arye as a young man traveling in Europe.
This is a photograph taken at Arye and Bilha’s wedding. Bilha is third from our left, then Arye next to her. Next to Arye are his parents Mania (Miriam) Dorf and Heinz Katzenstein.
This chilling photograph is of Arye’s notebook taken after the terrorist attack that killed him. It was returned to the family by El Al after Arye’s death.
This photograph was taken on the 53rd yahrzeit (anniversary) of Arye’s death in 2023, just a month ago. Arye’s gravestone reads: “Here lies our dear, noble spirited Arye Katzenstein, son of Miriam and Jacob Hacohen, who sacrificed his live during the attack on El Al passengers.”
The stones for Miki’s grandparents appear below:
Finally, Miki shared with me this photograph of her family—her husband, her children, and herself. I don’t usually include photographs of living people, but in this case I do so to honor the memory of Arye Katzenstein and to recognize the resilience of his family and the hope for a better future where all of us can live in peace and without fear of terrorism.
Amy
Thanks for sharing.
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Thanks for reading!
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Wow Amy! I’m so happy I saw your blog 2 months ago and wrote you. You are doing an amazing work for the family I’m very grateful. Waiting for you in Israel – Miki Katzanstein Dror
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Thank you, Miki! I am so very grateful that you found my blog and connected with me. And yes, someday in Israel. xoxo
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hi Amy, Yes, that’s a compelling story!!
I don’t quite understand how these names connect: “Arye Katzenstein, son of Miriam and Jacob Hacohen’. Can you explain…then they are also not the same names as ‘the grandparents’ of Niki
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Those are their Hebrew names, not their secular names.
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It’s the translation of the gravestones so it is literally what they say as translated by Miki. Thanks!
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Amy, being a European I remember this happening in my youth, indeed what a brave and courageous young man.
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Yes, he certainly was. So sad.
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I am very touched by Arye Katzenstein’s story. It was a heroic act of self-sacrifice to save the lives of his fellow human beings.
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Thanks, Peter.
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A true hero – self-sacrifice of that sort is almost unimaginable. I’m glad your cousin contacted you and gave you even more information, and those precious photos.
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I am also—thanks, Teresa.
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That’s the beauty of sharing family history on a blog – providing a way for family to connect. How good of Miki to take the time to contact you. Her father’s sacrifice was a sacrifice for his whole family. I can hardly imagine doing such a thing.
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I agree—there is nothing more rewarding about blogging than having a cousin find you because they stumbled upon your blog. I am so delighted that Miki reached out. And I’ve been blessed this winter with so many new cousins who found me through my blog. More to come!
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We never know how far reaching those ripples are when we through a pebble in the pond.
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Very true.
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It is wonderful that in the aftermath of such a horrific event and tragic loss of life that hope springs with a whole family that Arye left behind. These photos add a whole extra dimension to the story, too, Amy.
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Thanks, Luanne. I always find photographs meaningful, but these had a special power. Especially the notebook…
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The notebook is horrible. I was imagining what it felt like for the family when they received it.
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I know…
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I am leaving it to our poet laureate, Luanne 🙂 to write exactly how I was feeling. This was a very special connection for you and I am glad you both found each other. Beautiful update and tribute
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Thanks so much, Sharon.
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